Thoughts and musings
Three Habits That Improve How We Hear from God
Recently, I traveled overseas and taught a two-day intensive class at a seminary. During one session, I was asked: How can we improve our ability to hear from God? How can we improve our receptivity to hearing from God? Can we change things in our environment, our practices, or our habits to make a positive difference?
Hearing from God: Can You Learn to Listen?
Most of us fall into a few broad categories when we think about “hearing” from God. Some of us don't think about it much because we haven't experienced it, so we don't ponder or consider it too much. Others hear stories of people who regularly hear from God or experience moments of clarity where they understand what God is saying. Those stories stir something in us, and we would like that same clarity. Then there's another group, people who do hear from God, but erratically, with no seeming pattern or way to understand why sometimes we have clarity and other times there is silence.
Why We Need a Prayer Ministry Model
Have you ever wondered if there is a way to pray for others that will go deeper? Most of us want to pray for people in ways that are meaningful and impactful.
We may be ready to move beyond a quick, polite "Lord bless them" at the end of a conversation, though there's nothing wrong with that type of prayer. We want to pray in ways that meet people where they are, addresses what they're struggling with, and leaves them sensing that they experienced God in that moment. We want to show up for our friends, coworkers, and neighbors who are hurting and offer them something genuine.
The One Thing That Can Change Our Prayer Ministry
He was hard to miss, though not in any way that draws a crowd. He kept his head down as he moved through the room, his posture folded inward, as though he had spent years trying to be as inconspicuous as possible — and had finally succeeded. He had been praying about his situation for a long time. Others had prayed over him too, with sincerity and conviction, invoking spiritual authority, speaking healing and freedom over him, doing everything that was supposed to work. And nothing had changed.
A Negative Idea That Can Keep Believers Out of Prayer Ministry
There is a belief operating in some churches that is rarely spoken out loud. It is a belief that can grow over the years because of unchallenged assumptions, and normally it isn't something that is deliberately cultivated. The thought sounds like this: Prayer ministry is for those with special spiritual gifts, an unattainable spirituality, or unique spiritual authority. Here is the problem for many of us: that thought can seep into our minds, sometimes partially or even unconsciously, and it can damage the health of your church's prayer culture in ways we don't think about or realize.
How to Pray for Others in Ways That Actually Connect
Have you ever experienced something like the following story in your prayer ministry? An acquaintance had received prayer several times from people who cared about her and meant every word. The prayers were theologically sound and the people praying were sincere, but each time she left with a sense that the prayer hadn't connected with her or connected her to Jesus. It felt more like someone had described her situation to God while she observed the process. She couldn't fully explain the gap. She was grateful and felt a bit guilty for not being more grateful.
How to Grow in Prayer Ministry Through Every Season
Every person who has been seriously engaged in prayer ministry for any length of time has inhabited two different versions of their experience. There is a version that blazes because we see breakthroughs and answers that seem to happen regularly. In those seasons, the presence of the Holy Spirit is near, our confidence runs high, and the evidence of God's work is consistent enough to sustain our momentum of practice.
When You Feel Unseen: How Prayer Ministry Meets You Where You Are
Millions of people today feel invisible. They feel unseen in their struggles, unheard in their pain, and disconnected from any sense of belonging. One reason prayer ministry exists is to change that by being rooted in the Greatest Commandment (Matthew 22:36–40). When practiced with love and the power of the Holy Spirit, demonstrated through attentive listening and a holistic perspective, prayer ministry not only addresses immediate requests, it creates space for deep and lasting transformation.
When You Ask for Prayer, Something Holy Has Already Happened
Often people who hesitate to ask for prayer are not struggling with unbelief; they struggle with the concern that their faith isn’t enough. But Scripture helps us see that asking for prayer is an expression of faith. Jesus never used “lack of faith” to condemn or shame those who came to Him. This post explores some of what the Bible teaches about faith in healing prayer, why shame has no place in prayer ministry, and how prayer teams can create a grace-filled environment where the Holy Spirit moves freely.
How Prayer Ministry Can Help You Break Free
People carry burdens such as relational pain, spiritual frustration, and circumstances that feel impossible to change. Prayer ministry offers more than comfort; it opens a doorway to real transformation through the power of the Holy Spirit. This post explores what it means to feel spiritually stuck, why prayer is a proven pathway forward, and how a simple, biblical approach to praying for others can help people begin their healing journey.
Prayer Ministry that Impacts
Most people who come forward for prayer carry a concern. Sometimes it is a burden that’s difficult to articulate or a longing that lacks words. They desire to sense the Holy Spirit's presence; they know it's real, but they've rarely experienced it. Many of our ministry times, though well-intentioned, move too quickly, fill every silence, and leave little room for God to do what only God can do. There is a better way that makes space for the Holy Spirit through the way we posture ourselves in prayer.
You Can't Pray Well for Someone You've Judged
Many people who pray for others hit the same invisible wall: a heart that quietly slips from compassion to evaluation. This post explores what the Bible reveals about the posture that makes prayer ministry genuinely effective, and why the Holy Spirit works through what we're willing to surrender.
You Were Never Meant to Carry This Alone: A Better Way to Practice Prayer Ministry
Often people who struggle with prayer ministry don't lack ability; they may just need to adjust their approach. Jesus gives us a starting point in his own self-description: "I am gentle and kind" (Matthew 11:29). How to pray for others well begins not with technique or giftings, but with the character of Christ: gentleness, kindness, and dependence on the Holy Spirit. When we practice those qualities, prayer ministry becomes less about what we do and more about helping people encounter Christ.
Why Prayer Ministry Can Feel Broken
Often, people who want to pray for others don’t know where to start, and many have been quietly hurt by models that either demanded instant miracles or never offered prayer at all. The solution isn’t something, it’s a return to Jesus. This post provides an overview of six Christ-centered qualities that make prayer ministry transformative, explains why so many well-meaning prayer models cause harm, and shows you how to step into praying for others in a way that leaves people feeling genuinely loved, seen, heard, and cared for.
Presence-Focused Worship
I invited Zeke to write a guest blog. He has become a friend over the last year and is the worship pastor at Bedford Acres Christian Church. He was also deeply involved in the Asbury Outpouring as a student at the university.
Recently, questions filled my mind: What is "spontaneous" worship about? How do I know what to play or sing next? What is the point of doing worship this way?
Learning to Pray with Confidence
Prayer ministry, the practice of directly praying for others in ways that invite God to act, can bring healing, deliverance, and transformation, yet many believers avoid it because they feel a lack knowledge or ability. We want to pray for others with confidence, we sense the Holy Spirit prompting us, but our overthinking holds us back.
A Clear Path to Healthy Prayer Ministry
Prayer ministry and praying directly for others is in our heart and we believe God wants to use us to bring hope, healing, and change to others. But somewhere between our desire to serve and actually praying for people, doubt creeps in. What if nothing happens? What if we say the wrong thing? What if we make things worse?
Eyes Wide Open and Normalizing Praying for Others
Sometimes you feel uncertain about what to say or do during prayer ministry, or wonder what how to respond if someone reacts in an unpredictable way. You're not alone because many Christians are in a similar place, struggling with similar challenges to prayer such as trying to balance confidence in prayer, listening to the person, and attentiveness to what God is doing.
When to Stop and When to Persist in Prayer Ministry
You want to be effective in prayer ministry for others, but you're unsure when God is calling you to continue and when He's directing you to stop. This uncertainty can leave you feeling discouraged, wondering if you're missing out on something, or worried that you might be forcing outcomes rather than following the Holy Spirit's leading.
How to Keep Prayer Ministry Focused and Effective: A Practical Guide
Effective prayer ministry balances compassionate listening with focused prayer by keeping interviews brief, asking clear questions, and praying concisely while remaining open to the Holy Spirit's leading. The goal is to prioritize prayer over conversation while ensuring people feel genuinely cared for during the prayer ministry.